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Individual & Relationship Therapy · New York

Sex Therapy in New York for the Things That Are Hard to Say Out Loud

Sexual concerns are some of the most common things people carry and some of the last things they bring to therapy. Desire that has gone quiet, anxiety that shows up at the worst moment, a gap between what you and a partner want, shame you cannot trace — these are all workable, and none of them mean something is wrong with you.

At Peace Love Wellness, sex therapy is offered by Cameron Eshgh, LMHC-D, the practice founder, within a relational, trauma-informed approach. Cameron is currently full and accepting waitlist requests.

You may be here because

  • Your desire has changed, or you and a partner want sex at very different rates, and it has become a source of distance
  • Anxiety about performance, arousal, or orgasm is taking over moments that used to feel easy
  • Shame about sex, your body, or what you want follows you into intimacy
  • Sex has felt different or difficult since a trauma, an illness, a birth, or a major life change
  • You avoid the subject with your partner because every conversation about it goes badly

You don't need the right words or a clear diagnosis to start. Most people begin with some version of “this is hard to talk about,” and that is a fine place to begin.

What sex therapy can help with

  • Low desire, and differences in desire between partners
  • Performance anxiety and worry about arousal or orgasm
  • Sexual shame rooted in family, religion, or culture
  • Intimacy and sexuality after trauma
  • Talking with a partner about sex, wants, and limits
  • Rebuilding connection after a long stretch of avoidance

What sex therapy is — and is not

Sex therapy is talk therapy. Sessions are conversations, with you alone or with a partner, about what is happening in your sexual life and what sits underneath it: anxiety, history, beliefs, the relationship itself. There is no touch and nothing physical in session.

Some sexual concerns have a medical side. Where pain, hormones, medication, or a health condition may be involved, therapy works best alongside a medical provider, and we will say so when that looks likely.

Who offers sex therapy here

Sex therapy at Peace Love Wellness is offered by Cameron Eshgh, LMHC-D. Cameron's training in sex therapy comes from graduate coursework and continuing education, and he works with sexual concerns inside a relational, trauma-informed, sex-positive frame.

Cameron's caseload is currently full and he is accepting waitlist requests. If sex therapy is what you are looking for, tell us when you reach out and we will be straight with you about timing.

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If you would rather start sooner

Every clinician at Peace Love Wellness is sex-positive and kink-affirming, and several are accepting new clients now. If what you want is a therapist you can talk openly with about sexuality, relationships, and desire, rather than sex therapy specifically, you may not need to wait.

Online, private, and insurance-friendly

Sessions are online for adults located in New York, on a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform. We are in-network with Aetna, Anthem / Empire BlueCross (including Excellus, Highmark, and out-of-state BlueCard plans), Carelon, Cigna, EmblemHealth, MagnaCare, Meritain, and NYSHIP / The Empire Plan. Coverage for sexual concerns depends on your plan, and we help clarify your options before you begin.

Who You Could Work With

Cameron Eshgh, LMHC-D

The clinician at PLW who offers sex therapy. Sex therapy is currently available by waitlist.

Currently full — accepting waitlist requests

Sessions are online for clients located in New York. We review clinical fit, insurance, and current openings before you begin. Insurance & Fees · Get Started

Sex therapy FAQ

Questions we hear from people considering sex therapy at Peace Love Wellness.

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy focused on sexual concerns, such as low or mismatched desire, performance anxiety, difficulty with arousal or orgasm, sexual shame, and intimacy after trauma. Sessions are conversations, individually or with a partner. There is no physical contact or sexual activity in session.

Who offers sex therapy at Peace Love Wellness?

Cameron Eshgh, LMHC-D, the practice founder, offers sex therapy. Cameron is currently full and accepting waitlist requests. Our other clinicians are sex-positive and kink-affirming and can work with sexuality and relationships in therapy, but do not offer sex therapy as a specialty.

Is Cameron a certified sex therapist?

Cameron is not AASECT-certified. His sex therapy training comes from graduate coursework and continuing education, and he is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC-D) in New York.

Can I come to sex therapy on my own, or do I need a partner?

Either. Many people come alone to work on desire, anxiety, shame, or their own history. Partners can also come together when the concern lives between you.

Should I see a doctor first?

If you have pain with sex, a sudden change in sexual function, or think a medication or health condition may be involved, a medical evaluation is a good idea. Therapy and medical care often work together, and you do not need to finish one before starting the other.

Do you accept insurance for sex therapy in New York?

Many clients use insurance for therapy at Peace Love Wellness. We are in-network with Aetna, Anthem / Empire BlueCross (including Excellus, Highmark, and out-of-state BlueCard plans), Carelon, Cigna, EmblemHealth, MagnaCare, Meritain, and NYSHIP / The Empire Plan. Coverage depends on your plan and the concern being treated, and we help clarify your options before you begin.

You can say it here

Tell us a little about what's going on and mention sex therapy when you reach out. We'll be clear with you about Cameron's waitlist and about who can see you sooner.